Ready to make a permanent change? Let me show you…
How to Claim The Confidence And Power
You Already Have Within You!
- Find the blocks you don’t even know you have – and eliminate them forever…
- Free yourself of negative self-talk…
- Have happiness and fulfillment, both at work and at home…
- Take back control of your day so you can achieve your biggest career goals and know with certainty what you want in your next chapter…
And best of all …
How to Feel Completely At Ease With Who YOU Are…
No Matter What “They” Say!
"I’ve freed up five hours of time each week!"
Here’s what happens when you move From Comfort Zone to Confidence Zone with Sharon Melnick, Ph.D (these are just a few of the concrete results achieved from actual participants in the current coaching group, in their own words)…
"I have freed up five hours of time each week."
“When I started this course I had thousands of negative thoughts; this week I had…none. Because I don’t default to all that negative thinking anymore, I am SO much more productive.”
"I busted out of my comfort zone and made a bold move that took my business to the next level."
"I am finally free from a family situation that was draining and frustrating. Now, I am ready for a fulfilling relationship"
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“I can’t speak highly enough about this course. It was life changing for me, I learned how to go beyond all my old ways and look at life differently. I came to accept myself and finally have the power to use who I am and what I have effectively. I know how to deal with things and get immediately back on track towards what I want. Relationships with my boss and clients, as well as with family members, have dramatically improved.”
- Sal Padula, Berkeley Global Ltd. |
I've been busier than ever at work and focusing only on the important things. My business is already up 80% for the year. Things that would derail me for days and sometimes weeks now roll off my back in under an hour. Most importantly, I now have an indescribable faith in myself."
- Craig L. Meadows, CLU, CLTC, ChFC Managing Director Northwestern Mutual Financial Network |
Dear Friend,
Have you ever bought a book, taken a course, or tried really hard using willpower because these approaches promised to help you become that person you’ve always wanted to be but constantly feel you are falling short of? And yet at the end of it all, you’re still not moving forward?
Or maybe you’ve listened to gurus dispensing “tips” or a therapist telling you your ‘issues’… put in the time because you’re committed to change… and yet you still can’t seem to get out of your own way?
The problem is that until you pinpoint exactly what’s holding you back, you’ll never get the life you want. Only once you finally understand the real reasons why you’re not getting where you want, and begin using the tools I’d like to share with you, will you move towards exactly what you want automatically… without strain… without even “trying” hard!
Yes, you can…
- Ratchet up your income while working fewer hours and stressing less
- Start going after – and getting! – the high net worth clients you deserve
- Experience deeper and more satisfying relationships with your spouse, family and friends – and find solutions for dealing with people who frustrate you
- Free up hours of time and energy for the projects that mean most to you
- Never again be intimidated or derailed by difficult people
- Be bullet-proof to criticism
- Access the hidden inner potential and strength you have whenever you need
And finally…
Start Living The Life You’ve Always Wanted – Now!
From Comfort Zone To Confidence Zone
In this life-changing live workshop, I’ll use the methods I’ve developed through my 10 years of research at Harvard Medical School to pinpoint your blocks (the ones I guarantee you are not aware of), take apart your “old” ways, and give you all the tools you’ll need to move toward your goals, dreams, and the life you want.
Over the course of 8 weeks, with lectures, experiential exercises, lively discussion and empowering “homework,” we’ll permanently remove your self sabotage and lock in your “new way” of being. From then on out, your life becomes all about how you want it to
be – you and nobody else!
“After 4 sessions, it’s like I’m a new person!”
I’ve helped hundreds of people make dramatic permanent changes in their life with these methods. Here are just a few of their inspiring stories and rave reviews…
“I’ve built a new inner voice and made practical changes in my behavior. I used to take much more blame on myself, worry about what other people thought, and think that I wasn’t quite good enough. Now it’s a whole different picture. Now I get the respect I deserve. Now I have the most confidence I’ve ever had in my whole professional career!"
- Partner, PriceWaterhouseCoopers |
“One of the most powerful experiences of my whole life; You completely shifted my whole belief system, from who I thought I was, all the negative, "not enough" thoughts to a clean slate. It was totally freeing. It was so much more than a typical career coaching – it was a life lesson. I cleared up the hold the past had on me - this went deeper than therapy, and hit on things that many other workshops had never delved into – with effective, practical tools for every aspect of my life. It was like a construction project – we took down the roadblocks piece by piece to clear the way for me – to get this next career move that I’m wildly excited about, to improve the way I manage other people, and to grow my relationship leaps and bounds to the point of marriage. I learned so much about myself – this coaching has had a HUGE positive impact on my life."
- Beth R. |
I should tell you upfront, this class is not for everyone. Why? Because you will see a swift, positive shift in your life. Frankly, not everyone is ready for that.
This course is for you if:
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You’re ready to be completely free of the persistent doubts and insecurities that are keeping you from the personal and career success you know you can achieve… |
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You’re ready to experience complete confidence in yourself instead of feeling small… |
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You’re ready to move past the challenges in your relationships and embrace happiness and fulfillment instead…
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You’re ready to feel completely comfortable and secure in your own skin and let others’ opinions roll off your back… |
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You’re ready to ditch “floating through life syndrome” and reach for what you’ve always wanted… |
Here’s what you’ll walk away with at the end of the 8 weeks…
- You’ll have a TON of confidence – the most you’ve ever had in your life. You’ll stop wasting time and energy worrying about what other people think. You won’t need the approval of others.
- You’ll lead life on your own terms, not someone else’s (but don't worry, you will still be a good person)
- You’ll put your time, energy and attention into the things you WANT, instead of getting distracted, feeling overwhelmed or zipping in any of the million directions other than your true path
- Instead of putting yourself down, you’ll control your thoughts and consciously choose those which support you and your goals. You’ll move beyond negative, frustrated, worried or angry thoughts and talk to yourself with care and self respect.
- When you walk into a room with a prospect or senior manager, you’ll know deep down that you’re more than “enough” and you’ll automatically put your best self forward
- You’ll no longer feel drained and frustrated by people who “get to you” and you’ll have an effective way to deal with them. You’ll know exactly what to say to the troublemakers in your life (and everyone else, too!) to get them to do what you want.
- You’ll get clear on exactly what you want for the next chapter of your life, whether that’s moving forward with confidence or moving on to something much more satisfying.
Make no mistake…
These Are NOT “2 Weeks Then Back To The Old Way” Changes.
The Transformations You’ll Make Are For Good And Forever!
We’re NOT going to “think positive” and hope for the best. Together, we’re going to pinpoint what’s holding you back, deconstruct your current habits and build new habits that are in total alignment with who you really are and what you want to accomplish.
If all this sounds a little heavy, please don’t worry! The whole process is completely engaging and very fun. You’ll find yourself looking forward to each and every session – especially once you start to experience the results… (Which you will, starting from the very first session! In fact, in the last round of the program one woman had to drop out because she had a book deadline she had to devote all her time to. She called me to say she didn’t mind not coming to the rest of the program because the first session alone was so helpful that “it was worth the price of admission”)
“A better, deeper, faster method than I’ve come across in 20 years of this work. What you do is transformational versus incremental. Tiger Woods couldn’t get his game to the next level by simply getting better at his current swing. So he went through a process to break his swing down and then rebuild it, and now he’s at his peak. Your process is the same.”
- Mark Bonchek, CEO Truman Company |
"One of the breakthroughs I had in this program was that before this course I would wake up every morning with a negative chatter and that would influence how my day would play out. I learned in this course that these voices were based on a core belief that I developed when I was young…Once the reasons I developed that belief became clear to me, I now choose my beliefs about myself. I feel much freer. I feel like I accept myself completely, and that I can achieve the life I’ve always wanted."
- Susan Rosenthal |
Speaking of the sessions, here’s our…
8-Week Comfort-To-Confidence Game Plan
(Week 1) Take Charge Of Your Own Mind
Did you know that 60,000 thoughts race through your mind, each and every day? Imagine what would happen if every single one pulled you towards what you want most – even the thoughts you’re NOT consciously aware of (ie, most of them)!
I’ll give you the most powerful tools I know to focus your mind when it’s racing in a million unproductive directions and transform every unconstructive thought into one that works for you, not against you. Once you get the techniques down, your thoughts will support you and automatically put you in a positive state. (Imagine how great that’s gonna feel!)
And you’ll learn how to be ON whenever you want – no matter what kind of day you’re having.
"Sharon helps you uncover and conquer a deep seated belief you have told yourself that has led to negative thinking and makes you do behaviors that 'get in your own way'.
You will be so much happier within yourself and effective in your career once you have conquered and overcome what is holding you back. Would you like a HUGE turning point in your life today? Then don’t hesitate to take Sharon’s program. She delivers. Myself, I’m in a very good place right now. I don’t spiral into negative thinking anymore. I believe in myself, I'm focused, and I’m moving forward to accomplish!”
- Henry Davis, Coldwell Banker Hunt Kennedy |
"This course was well worth every penny I spent on it. The return was unbelievable!"
- Jeff Winick
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(Week Two) How To Let Go Of What Others Think And How They Treat You
Put an end to obsessing over “what others think” – and more importantly, feeling bad about it! You’ll learn how to not take things personally and walk away with a whole set of tools to easily slide past situations that used to ruin your whole day.
You'll discover how to bounce back instantly from emotional lows and insulate yourself from negative people.
At the end of the session, you’ll know how to be the captain of your ship instead of suffering under the weight of someone else’s thoughts and opinions. You’ll have the power to create the reality you want most!
(Week Three) The Real Reasons Why You Get In Your Own Way (And How To Stop)
Here’s where we’ll get to the heart of the matter. I’m going to tell you exactly why you’re getting in your own way and show you how to put an end to self-sabotage, once and for all. You’ve never had an insight like this, even if you’ve been in therapy for years – I guarantee it.
Literally hundreds of people have told me that their lives changed the instant I tell them why they’re doing what they’re doing. They say, “I had NO idea why I’ve been doing these things my whole life, and now I don’t need to do them anymore!”
"WOW! A few hours with Sharon changed my life forever compared to all those years in therapy. I’ve stopped taking things so personally and being a people pleaser. I’ve re-focused my energies on making my life more fulfilling. I finally have control of the negative voice in my head. I now make choices that are important to me in my life. Sharon gave me the foundation and tool set.”
--Risk Manager, Fortune 100 Company |
(Week Four): Say “So Long!” To Your Inner Critic – Forever!
Here’s where you’ll reap the ultimate benefit of all my years as a psychologist: complete liberation from your “inner critic” and total self-acceptance. (I guarantee: You never learned this in therapy!)
[IMPORTANT NOTE: You won’t get this stuff from anyone else! These are my “special sauce” techniques, developed in my research at Harvard.]
No matter where you are now, you’ll finally accept who you are and feel comfortable in your own skin. You’ll never wonder if you’re “good enough” again because you’ll know your worth all the way to your core.
You’ll start putting your energy toward things that get you moving in that direction quickly – instead of wasting your precious resources getting others to think well of you. This is the turning point, where you start approaching your life in the 'new way'.
"I went from "good" to "great” – and fast! I've never been more streamlined. I'm doing the things I've set out to do. My pipeline is more robust than it has been in 14 years and I grew my business 40% in the year after coaching. Now I can concentrate on the things I enjoy. I had a lot of faith in the things you said, and when I applied them, they absolutely worked. This hit the bullseye!"
- Peter Cleary, V.P., UBS Financial Services |
(Week Five) Breaking Free Of What Other People Say: How To Trust Yourself Completely
If there’s anyone who still “gets to you” by now, it’s time to break free at last! If you’ve been frustrated by people who you can’t get to change, you’re going to love this session.
I’ll show you how to develop the deepest trust in yourself and your intuition. Instead of taking your cues from others, you’ll rely on YOU. That means you’ll make decisions much more easily and take the risks that will reap big rewards.
You won’t believe how awesome you’ll feel when you really start to go for it – and get it! You’ll never want to go back to “the old way.” Here’s an example of what I mean…
A recent program participant used these techniques and ended up with a handful of clients, a guest spot on the NY evening news, and a speaking gig at Wharton Business School (he’d never given a public presentation before)! Here’s what happened…
“I did something last week that previously I would have told myself was a good idea but would have definitely talked myself out of it. It ended up getting me a lot of business and even landed me on television. I could feel myself prepared to get in my own way, but now I know how to push myself through it and do it anyway!
I was able to shift my thoughts to be positive and able to remind myself that I am helpful to people. When people acted like they didn’t want to hear from me I was tempted to be discouraged and go back to the office, but I just kept going and found people who would accept what I was offering. From just one morning of work, I’ve gotten several calls from sellers already and the results are still accruing!”
- Ray Schmitz, Coldwell Banker Hunt Kennedy |
(Week Six) Take Control Of Your Day (Instead Of Your Day Controlling You)
Forget about trying to use your willpower to overcome procrastination. Discover the deep reasons why you’re not following up and kick avoidance to the curb! I’ll be giving you 10 solid strategies to get things done and end procrastination forever. These approaches are guaranteed to work because they’re based on the real reasons why you don’t follow up, not willpower.
By the end of the session, you’ll have everything you ever need to take control of your day, master your time, and get results – regardless of others’ agendas. Going forward, you’ll accomplish everything on your to-do list so you can “leave work at the office” and end your day with peace of mind.
(Week Seven) Focused And Fulfilled: How To Get What You Really Want
We’ll use one of my “secret formula” exercises to focus in on exactly what you want and how to get there. You’ll learn how to leverage your strengths, talents and energy to create the life you really want to be living!
Not only will the exercise give you razor-sharp clarity and leave you knowing exactly what you need to do from here on out, it’s a lot of fun! Come prepared to have a blast!
"It's unbelievable how much progress I've been able to make so quickly! I now deal with stress like water off a duck's back. I know how to figure out why and how to convert my stress into positive actions. This has been an incredible process of self-discovery, I am so happy with the career choice I am now making and I would have never come to it if I hadn't gone through this with you."
- Jim Bean, Boston Scientific |
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"One of the things that drew me to this was how I spend so much of my life seeking approval of others…The course material felt like it was written just for me. Moving past that was a big breakthrough for me."
-David Bernstein
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(Week Eight) Lock in your gains for permanent change in your life
Its all downhill from here…This is the week we bring it all together – we make sure that you ‘bake in’ all the tools you have learned so that you ensure that you will maintain your ‘new ways’ of thinking and acting. You will have a whole toolkit and know when to use which tool in order to stay focused, confident, and effective at dealing with other people.
"A spectacular experience! You immediately grasp what is going on at a deeper level. You have an arsenal of painless, quick, and powerful strategies to get the person unstuck and feeling confident - to see the situation clearly and to be " in their power". It's as dramatically effective as if the client is given Batman's "utility belt" -- clever, handy tools to respond to any conceivable challenge in a balanced, constructive way. Every single time we talk it's extremely productive.”
--Judy M., Attorney |
(Bonus week) Wrap-Up Session With My “Secret Weapon” Success Mentor!
I’ll introduce you to an amazing woman who is an absolute master at the skills we’ll be building in the entire course. Over the past year, she has completely transformed my life, which has allowed me to grow my business and live from my heart. She’ll give you even more tools to take you forward. You’ll get concrete techniques to:
- Focus when you get overwhelmed
- Energize yourself when you feel down
- Kick stress to the curb AND reverse its effects
- Open your heart and let money and love flow to you
I could talk for 10 hours straight and still wouldn’t have even scratched the surface of the difference this incredible woman has made in my life. I know that even in the short time you’ll have together, she’ll change yours, too. I’m thrilled to bring this extra session to you.
"Anyone who wants to move forward but finds themselves standing in their own way, this is THE best workshop I have ever participated in. I will always be grateful that I made this investment in myself!"
- Vivan VanLeir, Career and Life Strategy Coach
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Yes, Sharon! I’m Ready To Step Into My Confidence Zone!
Here are the dates you need to mark on your calendar:
Tuesdays, 7-9 pm
May 13 - July 1, 2008
We’re going to have a great time in these classes, so you’ll want to make it to all of them. But don’t worry if you have to skip one – they’ll be taped so you don’t miss a thing.
To lock in your spot right now, just click on the button below. Your investment is just $1200, payable in one or two installments.
EARLY REGISTRATION SPECIAL! If you’re reading this on or before April 27 at 11pm, congratulations! Your investment is just $1000.
Please don’t put this off! Like I said, the sessions are going to be a blast, but we’re going to go deep, too. I must make sure everyone gets plenty of my personal attention. That’s why I can only accept 25 people in the course, max.
Just click on the button below to reserve your spot:

I also know that if you make this commitment to yourself and follow through, you will see results. That’s why I’m happy to offer my…
“New You” Money Back Guarantee!
If you fully participate in the exercises and can document that you made use of the skills you learned, and at the end of our time together you don’t either a) feel equipped to make the changes you set forth to make or b) notice significant progress toward the new life you want, I’ll cheerfully refund your entire registration fee at the completion of the course.
Remember, I can only accept 25 registrations. This class will fill up (seats are already taken), so get yours in now so you don’t miss out.
I can’t wait to see you in class and look forward to helping you blow past your blocks and claim the life you’ve been waiting for. Just click on the button below and I’ll see you soon!

To your every success,
Sharon Melnick, PhD
PS: My students consistently tell me that their lives get better and better 2 months, 3 months, 6 months… YEARS after our work together. The changes you’ll make in this class last for your lifetime. If you’re ready to finally move past what’s holding you back and leave it in the dust for good, click on the order button above to sign up.
PPS: Still not sure if this program is right for you? I invite you to listen in on my insight-packed (75 minutes) preview call before you decide. You’ll learn the 7 mistakes you make every day that keep you from getting what you want and you’ll get concrete action steps to get you started on your new life before we even meet!
Listen in now (the call is my free gift to you), or if you’re ready, just sign up!


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