Ready to make a permanent change? Let me show you…
How to Claim The Confidence, Power and
Effectiveness You Already Have Within You!
- Do you have the career success you always pictured you would have at this point in your life (or are you painfully aware you’ve held yourself back?)
- At this point in your life, do you still worry about what other people think about you and find it draining?
- Have you tried on your own to stop procrastination and lack of follow up, but after a little while you go back to it?
- Do you have anyone in your professional or personal life who consumes a lot of attention and you would welcome the ability to detach and have more power in dealing with them?
- Are you waiting for something to happen in order to get clear on what your next step is or in order to figure out what you really want to do in your life?
- If so, are you interested in quickly moving past these challenges and permanently becoming someone who has the life you’ve pictured for yourself?
"I’ve freed up five hours of time each week!"
Here’s what happens when you move From Comfort Zone to Confidence Zone with Sharon Melnick, Ph.D (these are just a few of the concrete results achieved by actual participants in the current program, in their own words)…
"Now I don't worry what other people think and I make my own decisions."
"I produced so much in those three months, my boss said "I'm impressed"! And now I am ready for more, and he's ready to move me into the next position."
"After taking your course, I saw an immediate difference in how I am approaching stressful situations at work. Its made things easier for me in my job and in my personal life. The degree of confidence I feel after the course is significant."
"The results are permanent. Not like the other mentoring programs where I am inspired and then go back to my old patterns…"
"I broke through a block I didn’t even know I had with a family member, and then the love of my life showed up”
"My wife says she has never seen me so comfortable in my own skin"
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“A better, deeper, faster method than I’ve come across in 20 years of this work. What you do is transformational versus incremental. Tiger Woods couldn’t get his game to the next level by simply getting better at his current swing. So he went through a process to break his swing down and then rebuild it, and now he’s at his peak. Your process is the same.”
- Mark Bonchek, CEO Truman Company |
I can’t speak highly enough about this course. The information is amazing and was life-changing for me, I learned how to go beyond all my old ways and look at life differently. You come to accept yourself and finally have the power to use who you are and what you have effectively. You know how to deal with things and get immediately back on track towards what you want. In the program you don’t have to rehash stuff or get into your problems, it just opens your mind and give you tools to breakthrough to the next level. My sales performance increased noticeably and my relationships with my boss, as well as with family members, have dramatically improved.
- Sal Padula, Berkeley Global Ltd. |
I've been busier than ever at work and focusing only on the important things. My business is already up 80% for the year. Things that would derail me for days and sometimes weeks now roll off my back in under an hour. Most importantly, I now have an indescribable faith in myself."
- Craig L. Meadows, CLU, CLTC, ChFC Managing Director Northwestern Mutual Financial Network |
Dear Friend,
Have you ever bought a book, taken a course, or tried really hard using willpower because these approaches promised to help you become that person you’ve always wanted to be but constantly feel you are falling short of? And yet at the end of it all, you’re still not moving forward?
Or maybe you’ve listened to gurus dispensing “tips” or a therapist telling you your ‘issues’… put in the time because you’re committed to change… and yet you still can’t seem to get out of your own way?
The problem is that until you pinpoint exactly what’s holding you back, you’ll never get the life you want. Only once you finally understand the real reasons why you’re not getting where you want, and begin using the tools I’d like to share with you, will you move towards exactly what you want automatically… without strain… without even “trying” hard!
When I asked prior participants in this program what they would say to other people about this program, here is the most frequent comment I heard: “If you don’t understand where your behaviors are coming from, tools you’ve learned probably won’t ever take hold. A zillion books and courses purport to help you get out of your own way, very few really deliver, but THIS ONE DOES!”
Yes, wthin 8 weeks, you can…
- Ratchet up your income while working fewer hours and stressing less
- Start going after – and getting! – the high net worth clients you deserve
- Experience deeper and more satisfying relationships with your spouse, family and friends – and find solutions for dealing with people who frustrate you
- Free up hours of time and energy for the projects that mean most to you
- Never again be intimidated or derailed by difficult people
- Be bullet-proof to criticism
- Access the hidden inner potential and strength you have whenever you need
And finally…
Start Living The Life You’ve Always Wanted – Now!
From Comfort Zone To Confidence Zone
In this life-changing live workshop, I’ll use the methods I’ve developed through my 10 years of research at Harvard Medical School to pinpoint your blocks (the ones I guarantee you are not aware of), take apart your “old” ways, and give you all the tools you’ll need to move toward your goals, dreams, and the life you want.
Over the course of 8 weeks, with lectures, experiential exercises, lively discussion and empowering “homework,” we’ll permanently remove your self sabotage and lock in your “new way” of being. From then on out, your life becomes all about how you want it to
be – you and nobody else!
“After 4 sessions, it’s like I’m a new person!” -- Amanda Rikeman
I’ve helped hundreds of people make dramatic permanent changes in their life with these methods. Here are just a few of their inspiring stories and rave reviews…
“ Her approach vacuumed my brain of a lot of cobwebs and I left full of new perspectives and tools for the life I never thought I could have... My kind of stuck was that I knew I had great talents that I could be using better, but I didn’t know how to do it. I was standing at the edge of the pool, thinking "what is my talent, how do I do it, should I…" But now I’M IN! I've left my job and I’m Unleashed! I now have an utter confidence that I can pull anything off!"
- Lynette Benton |
“I’ve built a new inner voice and made practical changes in my behavior. I used to take much more blame on myself, worry about what other people thought, and think that I wasn’t quite good enough. Now it’s a whole different picture. Now I get the respect I deserve. Now I have the most confidence I’ve ever had in my whole professional career!"
- Partner, PriceWaterhouseCoopers |
“One of the most powerful experiences of my whole life; You completely shifted my whole belief system, from who I thought I was, all the negative, "not enough" thoughts to a clean slate. It was totally freeing. It was so much more than a typical career coaching – it was a life lesson. I cleared up the hold the past had on me - this went deeper than therapy, and hit on things that many other workshops had never delved into – with effective, practical tools for every aspect of my life. It was like a construction project – we took down the roadblocks piece by piece to clear the way for me – to get this next career move that I’m wildly excited about, to improve the way I manage other people, and to grow my relationship leaps and bounds to the point of marriage. I learned so much about myself – this coaching has had a HUGE positive impact on my life."
- Beth R. |
Here’s what you’ll walk away with at the end of the 8 weeks…
- You’ll have a TON of confidence – the most you’ve ever had in your life. You’ll stop wasting time and energy worrying about what other people think. You won’t need the approval of others.
- You’ll lead life on your own terms, not someone else’s (but don't worry, you will still be a good person)
- You’ll put your time, energy and attention into the things you WANT, instead of getting distracted, feeling overwhelmed or zipping in any of the million directions other than your true path
- Instead of putting yourself down, you’ll control your thoughts and consciously choose those which support you and your goals. You’ll move beyond negative, frustrated, worried or angry thoughts and talk to yourself with care and self respect.
- When you walk into a room with a prospect or senior manager, you’ll know deep down that you’re more than “enough” and you’ll automatically put your best self forward
- You’ll no longer feel drained and frustrated by people who “get to you” and you’ll have an effective way to deal with them. You’ll know exactly what to say to the troublemakers in your life (and everyone else, too!) to get them to do what you want.
- You will end your ‘floating through life’ syndrome and get clear on exactly what you want for the next chapter whether that’s moving forward with confidence or moving on to something much more satisfying.
Make no mistake…
These Are NOT “2 Weeks Then Back To The Old Way” Changes.
The Transformations You’ll Make Are For Good And Forever!
We’re NOT going to “think positive” and hope for the best. Together, we’re going to pinpoint what’s holding you back, deconstruct your current habits and build new habits that are in total alignment with who you really are and what you want to accomplish.
If all this sounds a little heavy, please don’t worry! The whole process is completely engaging and very fun. You won’t be ‘hung out to dry’ in public like in other ‘self help’ courses. Rather, you will learn information each week that will open your mind to new perspectives and give you skills to deal with yourself and other people better You’ll find yourself looking forward to each and every session – especially once you start to experience the results… (Which you will, starting from the very first session! In fact, in the last round of the program one woman had to drop out because she had a book deadline she had to devote all her time to. She called me to say she didn’t mind not coming to the rest of the program because the first session alone was so helpful that “it was worth the price of admission”
"One of the breakthroughs I had in this program was that before this course I would wake up every morning with a negative chatter and that would influence how my day would play out. I learned in this course that these voices were based on a core belief that I developed when I was young…Once the reasons I developed that belief became clear to me, I now choose my beliefs about myself. I feel much freer. I feel like I accept myself completely, and that I can achieve the life I’ve always wanted."
- Susan Rosenthal |
Speaking of the sessions, here’s our…
8-Week Comfort-To-Confidence Game Plan
(Week 1) Take Charge Of Your Own Mind
Did you know that 60,000 thoughts race through your mind, each and every day? Imagine what would happen if every single one pulled you towards what you want most – even the thoughts you’re NOT consciously aware of (ie, most of them)!
I’ll give you the most powerful tools I know to focus your mind when it’s racing in a million unproductive directions and transform every unconstructive thought into one that works for you, not against you. Once you get the techniques down, your thoughts will support you and automatically put you in a positive state.
And you’ll learn how to be ON whenever you want – no matter what kind of day you’re having.
"Sharon helps you uncover and conquer a deep seated belief you have told yourself that has led to negative thinking and makes you do behaviors that 'get in your own way'.
You will be so much happier within yourself and effective in your career once you have conquered and overcome what is holding you back. Would you like a HUGE turning point in your life today? Then don’t hesitate to take Sharon’s program. She delivers. Myself, I’m in a very good place right now. I don’t spiral into negative thinking anymore. I believe in myself, I'm focused, and I’m moving forward to accomplish!”
- Henry Davis, Coldwell Banker Hunt Kennedy |
"This course was well worth every penny I spent on it. The return was unbelievable!"
- Jeff Winick |
(Week Two) How To Let Go Of What Others Think And How They Treat You
Put an end to obsessing over “what others think". You’ll learn how to not take things personally and walk away with a whole set of tools to easily slide past situations that used to ruin your whole day.
You'll discover how to bounce back instantly from emotional lows and insulate yourself from negative people.
(Week Three) The Real Reasons Why You Get In Your Own Way (And How To Stop)
”Hundreds of other people who have heard this explanation have said: “Because I now understand why I have done these bad behaviors my whole life… I don’t need to do them anymore” You’ll start putting your energy toward things that get you moving in the right direction quickly – instead of wasting your precious resources getting others to think well of you. You will have a sense of freedom from your ‘old ways’ of doing things and will then start to construct your ‘new way’ of doing things.
"WOW! A few hours with Sharon changed my life forever compared to all those years in therapy. I’ve stopped taking things so personally and being a people pleaser. I’ve re-focused my energies on making my life more fulfilling. I finally have control of the negative voice in my head. I now make choices that are important to me in my life. Sharon gave me the foundation and tool set.”
--Risk Manager, Fortune 100 Company |
(Week Four): Say “So Long!” To Your Inner Critic – Forever!
This is the week participants wait for: many clients tell me this is the ‘single most powerful conversation I have ever had”. You will achieve liberation from your doubts and ease into self-acceptance once and for all.
[IMPORTANT NOTE: I gurantee: You never learned this in therapy. These are my “special sauce” techniques, developed in my research at Harvard.]
No matter where you are now, you’ll finally accept who you are and feel comfortable in your own skin. You’ll never wonder if you’re “good enough” again because you’ll know your worth all the way to your core.
You’ll start putting your energy toward things that get you moving in that direction quickly – instead of wasting your precious resources getting others to think well of you. This is the turning point, where you start approaching your life in the 'new way'.
"I went from "good" to "great” – and fast! I've never been more streamlined. I'm doing the things I've set out to do. My pipeline is more robust than it has been in 14 years and I grew my business 40% in the year after coaching. Now I can concentrate on the things I enjoy. I had a lot of faith in the things you said, and when I applied them, they absolutely worked. This hit the bullseye!"
- Peter Cleary, V.P., UBS Financial Services |
(Week Five) Breaking Free From What Other People Say: How To Trust Yourself Completely
If there’s anyone who still “gets to you” by now, it’s time to break free at last! You will learn to not be bothered by people who have frustrated you, and you will also learn how to influence them to do what you want them to do.
I’ll show you how to develop the deepest trust in yourself and your intuition. Instead of taking your cues from others, you’ll rely on YOU. That means you’ll make decisions much more easily and take the risks that will reap big rewards.
A recent program participant used these techniques and ended up with a handful of clients, a guest spot on the NY evening news, and a speaking gig at Wharton Business School (he’d never given a public presentation before)! Here’s what happened…
“I did something last week that previously I would have told myself was a good idea but would have definitely talked myself out of it. It ended up getting me a lot of business and even landed me on television. I could feel myself prepared to get in my own way, but now I know how to push myself through it and do it anyway!
I was able to shift my thoughts to be positive and able to remind myself that I am helpful to people. When people acted like they didn’t want to hear from me I was tempted to be discouraged and go back to the office, but I just kept going and found people who would accept what I was offering. From just one morning of work, I’ve gotten several calls from sellers already and the results are still accruing!”
- Ray Schmitz, Coldwell Banker Hunt Kennedy |
(Week Six) Take Control Of Your Day (Instead Of Your Day Controlling You)
Forget about trying to use your willpower to overcome procrastination. Discover the deep reasons why you’re not following up and kick avoidance to the curb! I’ll be giving you 10 solid strategies to get things done and end procrastination forever. These approaches are guaranteed to work because they’re based on the real reasons why you don’t follow up, not willpower.
By the end of the session, you’ll have everything you ever need to take control of your day, master your time, and get results – regardless of others’ agendas. Going forward, you’ll accomplish everything on your to-do list so you can “leave work at the office” and end your day with peace of mind.
(Week Seven) Focused And Fulfilled: How To Get What You Really Want
We’ll use one of my “secret formula” exercises to focus in on exactly what you want and how to get there. You’ll learn how to leverage your strengths, talents and energy to create the life you really want to be living!
You will gain razor-sharp clarity and leave knowing what you truly want and exactly what you need to do from here on out.
"It's unbelievable how much progress I've been able to make so quickly! I now deal with stress like water off a duck's back. I know how to figure out why and how to convert my stress into positive actions. This has been an incredible process of self-discovery, I am so happy with the career choice I am now making and I would have never come to it if I hadn't gone through this with you."
- Jim Bean, Boston Scientific |
(Week Eight) Lock in your gains for permanent change in your life
Its all downhill from here…This is the week we bring it all together – we make sure that you ‘bake in’ all the tools you have learned so that you ensure that you will maintain your ‘new ways’ of thinking and acting. You will have a whole toolkit and know when to use which tool in order to stay focused, confident, and effective at dealing with other people.
"A spectacular experience! You immediately grasp what is going on at a deeper level. You have an arsenal of painless, quick, and powerful strategies to get the person unstuck and feeling confident - to see the situation clearly and to be " in their power". It's as dramatically effective as if the client is given Batman's "utility belt" -- clever, handy tools to respond to any conceivable challenge in a balanced, constructive way. Every single time we talk it's extremely productive.”
--Judy M., Attorney |
"Anyone who wants to move forward but finds themselves standing in their own way, this is THE best workshop I have ever participated in. I will always be grateful that I made this investment in myself!"
- Vivan VanLeir, Career and Life Strategy Coach |
Money Back Guarantee
 I am confident in the efficacy of the approaches I use, thus this program comes with a money-back guarantee. If at the end of the program, you can document that you consistently applied the skills you learned (correctly, as they were taught) and you do not feel equipped to or have not made noticeable progress towards the goals you set forth at the beginning, I will refund your fee for the program.
PS: My participants tell me that their lives get better and better 2 months, 3 months, 6 months… YEARS after our work together. The changes you’ll make in this class last for your lifetime. If you’re ready to finally move past what’s holding you back and leave it in the dust for good, sign up to be on our priority ist.
PPS: Still not sure if this program is right for you? I invite you to listen in on my insight-packed (75 minutes) preview call before you decide. You’ll learn the 7 mistakes you make every day that keep you from getting what you want and you’ll get concrete action steps to get you started on your new life before we even meet!
Listen in now (the call is my free gift to you)
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