Do you want to command respect?
“What if they think my comment isn’t smart?” “Is the answer to my question in the materials they distributed or explained in a prior meeting?” “I don’t think I have as much experience as they think I do, I better not state my idea with conviction – this way I have an out if my […]
Do You Pull the Plug On Your Own Productivity?
As you know, you have approximately 60,000 thoughts a day, but a single one can pull the plug on your productivity for the whole day (or week). For example, I had a client who who sold insurance. He got a referral to meet with the person who heads a big union. Can you imagine? He would […]
The ONLY resolution you ever need to make
There is one “master” resolution. Without it all your other resolutions cannot be carried out. The one ability you want to resolve to strengthen is Self Trust. Self-trust is relying upon your inner resources (i.e. emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual) to achieve desired success and fulfillment. It enables you to stay steady and expand what you CAN […]
How to Avoid Family Conflict These Holidays
Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays probably mean get togethers with your family of origin (or potentially even more loaded: with those of your spouse!) While there are many comforts and joy in spending time with your extended family, for some it can mean you have to interact with people who control, frustrate, criticize, or burden you. There […]
How Not to REACT Emotionally in Your Relationships
Your assistant makes mistakes and has an attitude. You can’t get your colleagues to take you seriously and follow your ideas. Your boss uses a tone, changes his mind all the time, or doesn’t go to bat for you, You and your spouse get stuck in communication dead-ends? You have drama in your dating. A […]
